Every Leading with Empathy engagement is customized to the needs of your team and organization, but feel free to use the examples below to get started flexing your empathy muscle.

Quick-Start Empathy Questions

Use these empathy-driving questions to unlock open conversation (these are not intended to be part of an interrogation!). Sprinkle one or two into conversation when you want to understand more about your employee and lead by example by sharing your own story first. Remember to have empathy for those who don’t want to share - this only works if there’s an established level of psychological safety. And don’t ruin it all by not truly listening to their answers. The key to empathic listening is to listen to understand, not to judge, agree or respond by turning the spotlight right back to your experience.

Research: First HP Work Relationship Index Shows Majority of People Worldwide Have an Unhealthy Relationship with Work

HP Research Finds Expectations of Work Have Changed Drastically in the Last 2-3 Years

September 20, 2023

Research: The power of empathy in times of crisis and beyond

Empathy Is a Force for Innovation, Flourishing, and Intent to Stay

Van Bommel, T. (2021). Catalyst

Article: Empathy is the Ultimate Customer Service Secret. Here are 3 Empathy Essentials You Need in Your Competitive Arsenal

Empathy can be learned, and these three empathy essentials are a great place to start.

Micah Solomon, Entrepreneur.com

September 27, 2023

Book: Awakening Compassion at Work: The Quiet Power that Elevates People and Organizations

The new book by Monica Worline and Jane Dutton opens our eyes to the power of and importance of compassion in organizations and reveals caring as a competitive advantage that fuels innovation, service quality, adaptability, retention, and more.

Monica C. Worline and Jane E. Dutton, 2017